This journal, beginning in 2010, records the journey for Bill,55, Lyn,50 and Jack, 16 as we learn about and try to understand dementia and how it will change our lives.
Thursday, June 23, 2011
Kansas, the wheatland.
We are home. We are so happy to be here. The house is coming along very nicely. The majority of the inside is completed. There is lots of cleanup and taking back control of nature outside and we have some decisions to make on the outside of the structure, also. Bill has had some very confused moments, and the clutter of all the unpacked boxes makes it tough for him, but over all he is holding his own. Jack is in social mode. Go Jack. I am about one third unpacked. I can't believe how cool the color schemes turned out. Go Lyn! On the way here we saw harvest in session. Haven't seen that in about ten years. Nice. We've connected with Al and Bob. Bob came to the house Wednesday with cinnamin rolls from Yoder (can't even describe its goodness) and helped moved furniture around and around and around. LOL. I guess moving a pellet stove on a pallet plus the marble fireproof flooring is a bit on the heavy side. Thanks, Bob. It looks great.
Tuesday, June 14, 2011
Goodbyes: the last week of school
As I near the end of packing to move back home, I am finally able to identify some of the grief I am feeling. I love working with my kids. It is a part of me, of who I am. It is a part of my identity.
It's humbling and an epiphany when I think of all the things I have learned from my kids. Here a a few of those things:
1. Exercise helps lesson our stress

2. Find purpose.

3.Stand up for yourself

4. Learn from each other
5. Forgive each other over and over and over. Accept differences and try to find the good in people.

6. Forgive each other over and over and over. Accept differences and try to find the good in people.
7. NEVER
Ever

Ever give up. Think beyond your limitations.
8. Do things that make you happy. Climb, swing, ride bikes, spin....

9. You can tell really good friends you love them if you really do. It's ok to love others, too. If you don't know how to love, just spend a day in my classroom.

10. Care from the bottom of your heart.We love and miss you, Joey.



11. Celebrate every day like it is your birthday. Do things you love to do.
12. Set goals, dream like Marty and Billy, and work to be successful like RJ and Elvis.

It's humbling and an epiphany when I think of all the things I have learned from my kids. Here a a few of those things:
1. Exercise helps lesson our stress

2. Find purpose.

3.Stand up for yourself

4. Learn from each other

5. Forgive each other over and over and over. Accept differences and try to find the good in people.


6. Forgive each other over and over and over. Accept differences and try to find the good in people.

7. NEVER

Ever

Ever give up. Think beyond your limitations.

8. Do things that make you happy. Climb, swing, ride bikes, spin....

9. You can tell really good friends you love them if you really do. It's ok to love others, too. If you don't know how to love, just spend a day in my classroom.


10. Care from the bottom of your heart.We love and miss you, Joey.



11. Celebrate every day like it is your birthday. Do things you love to do.
12. Set goals, dream like Marty and Billy, and work to be successful like RJ and Elvis.


Sunday, June 12, 2011
Goodbye's










Thursday, June 2, 2011
Jack
Jack is a social icon. He's big and strong and a teddy bear. He loves wrestling and football. He is a social creature. With his parents, poor kid, he didn't stand a chance in being shy or withdrawn. He is my favorite volunteer in my classroom and he honestly considers our kids to be friends. I have to remind him to be chill and tone down his exuberance in public. How ironic is that?
Jack is a good friend, so Jack has a lot of friends. In fact, Jack has more friends than just about anyone I know. You know that makes me proud. He is quite the character. He befriends everyone, young, old, you name it. I know, yadda yadda. He's also ornery as is humanly possible, which also makes us proud.
The Craven's invited the wrestling team for Jack's send off party. He'll attend one more wrestling camp with his team. In fact, the afternoon he gets back the moving company will have us pretty close to packed.
The parties and farewells go on. Today he met a group at Sherman Park that included two ex-girlfriends that he has kept as friends. (Brave, too, isn't he?) Tonight he is hanging with Mark. To Jack it's all good. Danged straight. It is, too kid. Love, Mom
Monday, May 30, 2011
Phases in Bill's life from MY perception (lol)
It always helps when we keep our perspectives on life. Life IS good.
Bill when he was a Professor:
Bill today:
Bill when he was a Professor:
Bill today:
Sunday, May 29, 2011
Final days with the sistas
Saying goodbye to the Sistas.... I've been threatened, and they say I can't show any pics but this will give you an idea. Pics will remain up for sale for one year. After that, they will be free to the public through face book ba ha ha ha ha. What a blast. Fairwell to Maggie, Bridgett, Charlene, Jamie, and Barb. As agreed in one of our many toasts, same time next year, place to be determined.
Final days: School
With two weeks to go, we are winding up the year at school. Dave and I and the staff took the kids to the bear farm this Friday. The money was donated to us via a fundraiser in the memory of my dear friend and para-professional Dan Rowley.

We had a wonderful time with the kids. The bear ranch is a rescue center when cubs are found abandoned here in the UP. There are bears from very young to full grown OMG I hope I never meet you in the woods big.
Dan is now a living legend for those of us who knew him. Cheers, baby to one of the coolest, orneriest Santas that ever made magic happen. The kids have given him his own shrine, right smack dab in the middle of the American flag. He loved the pledge of the allegiance, and that is how they honor him.

We miss you, Dan. And Luke wants you to know you're still old.

We had a wonderful time with the kids. The bear ranch is a rescue center when cubs are found abandoned here in the UP. There are bears from very young to full grown OMG I hope I never meet you in the woods big.
Dan is now a living legend for those of us who knew him. Cheers, baby to one of the coolest, orneriest Santas that ever made magic happen. The kids have given him his own shrine, right smack dab in the middle of the American flag. He loved the pledge of the allegiance, and that is how they honor him.
We miss you, Dan. And Luke wants you to know you're still old.
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